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Sunday, November 12, 2006

karla





Karla and I spent most of yesterday in Santa Monica, taking the footpath down into Venice Beach. We had planned to walk about five miles each way, but I had pulled a muscle while biking earlier in the morning, so after about a mile or so I began stopping frequently to work the cramps out of my thigh. Karla stayed patient with me, but after about my fourth break I decided there wasn't much point in trying to go further.

I don't know how I'd make it through my current ordeal without Karla. I don't mean that sentimentally, at least not in this instance. But the health care industry no longer seems to be designed with maneuverability in mind, and Karla--a nurse by training, a case manager by profession, and one particular patient's ferocious advocate by a twist of fate--is one of the few people in the country who actually knows her way around the system.

A recent example: Four weeks ago, when the spots on my liver were still considered an anomaly attributable to past health problems, we met with my hepatologist. I was to fly out to Philadelphia the next day for a month-long research trip, so when Dr. Kahn encouraged me to stick around long enough for a biopsy, I held out for further evidence that this step was really necessary.

"If we could at least do an ultrasound," he said, "I'd feel more confident telling you whether you're safe to leave. But we can't schedule it until we get approval, which we can't get in less than 48 hours."

Karla replied, "Let me see what I can do." She pulled out her cell phone, spoke to someone for a couple of minutes, hung up and reported, "Marie says she can get the approval to us in half an hour."

Two hours later, the test was complete and we were all convinced that I needed to postpone my trip.

5 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

From a sentimental position: We, meaning Mom and all the rest of your adoring family, just find Karla very easy to love. And we are so thankful she is in our family. Thank you for your very wise choice.
From a practical position: Thank God Karla is in your corner, extending her strength, her expertise in moving through the medical maze, and supporting you in ways we do not see, but we know and appreciate. Love, Mom
ps: Doesn't anyone else know your BLOG address?

13/11/06 11:58 AM  
Blogger scott becker said...

Hi Mom--Yeah, I lucked out with Karla. By the way, do you recognize the picture of the two of us at the Promenade? You took that one.--Scott

14/11/06 8:30 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

It's interesting to think that all of these years and all of Karla's training have led her to this place, where she can stand in the hospital hallway with her superhero cape waving in the breeze, cell phone in hand, looking assertively to the east.

It was so good to finally talk. Sorry it took me so long.

14/11/06 8:53 AM  
Blogger scott becker said...

Thanks, Kelly. I appreciated your call.

15/11/06 8:37 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Yes, Scott, I certainly did recognize the photo, and it holds some very nice memories. Is sixfiftytwo our Kelly? Love, Mom

15/11/06 4:13 PM  

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